Inner Peace
As my soul has been aroused awakened out of its deep unconscious sleep, the idea of spiritual wholeness penetrates my very being. During my spiritual awakening process, I often questioned what spiritual wholeness means to me and how its profound nature applies to my essence as an eternal soul.
When I contemplate this topic, I feel overwhelmed with love. Just the thought of feeling whole brings so much joy and satisfaction into my heart. I’ve come to realize that in spiritual truth, wholeness has just as much power within me as love. There is no separation.
The deep love and connection I feel for life is the exact feeling that provokes a state of wholeness within me. When I feel love, I feel whole, and when I feel whole, I feel love. It’s all one energy. It’s all the same divine life force that makes up the entire Universe.
Spiritual Wholeness
Trying to explain the meaning of spiritual wholeness in words can diminish its true power. Spiritual wholeness is complete and all-encompassing. It asks for nothing because it needs nothing. When you are spiritually whole, there is an overwhelming peace, calmness, and contentment that radiates your very being.
The path to spiritual wholeness is a path of self-realization and self-discovery. To understand spiritual wholeness, you must first go within and get familiar with your inner world. The willingness to do this takes strength, honesty, and transparency.
Once you achieve spiritual wholeness, you know it, feel it, and embody it every moment of your life. You will have an intense feeling of oneness and connectedness with all of life. When you are whole, you live your life connected to Source through pure positive unconditional love.
Spiritual wholeness is a feeling that can only be created and experienced from within. Our souls are innately whole. It is who we are at our core beyond the ego, the labels, and the human programming. Many lifetimes of pain and trauma take us away from our true nature of wholeness, leaving us feeling broken, unworthy and incomplete.
Open Heart
To feel whole means to have an open heart. When you are in a state of wholeness, you experience joy, ecstasy, bliss, and gratitude for your life and everything in it. You feel blessed by life independent of any outside circumstances.
When you are whole, it is impossible to want for anything. How can you want when you already feel whole? To be whole means, you never need to wait for specific events in your life to feel fulfilled; instead, your very existence fulfills you in every way. You don’t need anything outside of you to feel alive. It’s your connection and love for life that lights you up inside.
Feelings of wholeness and oneness generate high energy, creating freedom, power, independence, and strength.
Wholeness in Relationships
You’re not looking for relationships to make you feel complete when you are whole. You are already complete. The ideal relationship is between two people who are already whole individually. When they come together, they enhance one another.
This is the number one reason most romantic relationships don’t last and usually end in anger, bitterness, and resentment. It is unrealistic to think someone else is responsible for your happiness.
We often believe that we will finally be happy when we find “the one.” Once we find the perfect partner to love us, our heartache and pain will go away. This is far from the truth.
At the beginning of a relationship, you both will feel unbelievable happiness and fulfillment being together. You’ll go above and beyond to fulfill each other’s every desire.
You’ll work hard to make each other as happy as possible. But this is not sustainable. Over time things will settle down, and you’ll realize that the emptiness you once felt is still there. You realize your partner no longer fills that void in your soul.
Turmoil
Eventually, you’ll start lashing out and blaming them for your feelings of unhappiness. They may say something or do something that triggers you causing you to feel negative emotions towards them. They may also trigger feelings of unworthiness. The same person that once gave you so much pleasure and happiness is now the root cause of your pain.
Every time you are triggered, you become more unhappy, and you blame them for the pain it causes you. But the truth is, this pain was already there long before you met them. It was just suppressed temporarily.
The pain stems from unhealed wounds that they bring to the surface. You perceive them to be the cause of these wounds, but really, they are just triggering the wounds already there.
Most people don’t realize that their partner struggles with their own emptiness, pain, and unhealed wounds. So, you are both triggering each other. It becomes a vicious and painful cycle. This very dynamic leads to fights, turmoil, and eventually separation. Each will blame the other for not fulfilling them and causing them pain.
You take responsibility for your own pain and unhealed wounds when you are whole. When your partner triggers you (and they will!), you go within instead of lashing out, blaming, and getting defensive. Rather, you can stay conscious and aware. You accept that you have unhealed wounds that need to be addressed. You appreciate them for being your greatest teacher, and you see it as a way to heal, learn and grow.
Oneness and Connectedness
When you are whole, you feel oneness with Source and feel connected with everyone and everything in the Universe. With pure love and intensity, you feel the divine presence of Source within you. You know that you are an eternal soul having a human experience and that the non-physical world is more real than the physical world.
You create your reality, and you understand that the power of creation is within you through your thoughts and emotions. Because of this knowledge, you never allow a thought to pass through your awareness unnoticed. As well as, you never allow outside people or events to control your emotions.
Even when things are out of your control, you trust and surrender to a high power. You trust that everything happens for a reason and that all hardships in life are a soul lesson for growth and transformation. You have unwavering faith that whatever happens in your life that you are always safe and protected.
There will be a deep understanding that we are all one. That everyone is connected and that there is no separation. When you are whole, you are kind, caring, and giving to others. You have compassion and empathy for all living things. You feel connected to others even from a distance. Every day you wake up with feelings of love and gratitude for all life. You find beauty and appreciation for everyone and everything in your experience.
Feelings and Emotions
When you are whole, you take full responsibility for your feelings and emotions. You don’t blame others for how you feel. You don’t look to others to fulfill you or make you feel whole because you are already whole. Happiness is an inside job, and you understand on a deep level that only you can make yourself happy.
When you are spiritually whole, you never blame other people or the Universe for things that go wrong in your life. You realize that you are a creator an alchemist and that you create your reality.
You respect the power of your thoughts and emotions, which causes you to be in complete control of them at all times. When things do go wrong, you accept them and use them to transform.
To be whole means, you are never a victim. You don’t feel sorry for yourself or wallow in pity. When things go wrong in your life, you are not victimized or feel the world is against you. You find the lesson in every experience, and you never dwell in the pain for too long.
To truly feel whole, you must heal your unhealed wounds. The process of healing will help you become aware of unconscious patterns and behaviors. Most of our behavior stems from our inner child wounds of trauma such as abandonment, rejection, or neglect to name a few. Spiritual wholeness comes when you acknowledge and heal your inner child wounds and become aware of your unconscious behaviors.
Self-awareness
Self-awareness is critical in feeling whole because this is what allows you to manage your emotions to align your behavior with your values. When you are self-aware, you can objectively evaluate yourself, your actions, and your behaviors.
Self-awareness means to be consciously aware and to acknowledge your character, feelings, motives, and desires. You can see yourself without judgment but with honesty and acceptance. When someone triggers you, instead of lashing out in anger, you can go within and recognize your character and feelings that cause the negative emotions to arise.
Self-love
Self-love is the foundation for wholeness. Without self-love, you can never truly feel complete. When you love yourself, you put your well-being and happiness first. This is not done selfishly or vainly but in a loving way.
It is impossible to give love to others without giving love to yourself first. When you love yourself, you respect and honor your own needs. This causes you to feel satisfied and fulfilled. With self-love, you accept yourself and all your flaws. You don’t judge or criticize but feel compassion and worthiness. You don’t look for instant gratification in material things. Or numb your pain in drugs and alcohol.
You don’t consume yourself in low vibration energy of negative emotions such as anger, resentment, fear, or jealousy. You understand your value and worth, so you will never feel the need to compete or compare yourself with others.
Self-love is a human necessity.
Live in the NOW!
Spiritual wholeness is a process, but nobody can take it away from you once you achieve it. As in most spiritual practices, you must stay connected with who you truly are, which is pure consciousness.
You are an eternal divine being. To connect with that consciousness and Source, practice living in the now, stay present and develop a regular meditation routine.
In the silence, you will find peace, joy, and love. You will find wholeness.