High Vibration
The twin flame connection is a beautiful gift that offers you an opportunity to raise your vibration and define your character as an eternal loving being. If allowed, it will transform you into your true authentic self.
Our most defining moments in life come when we decide to either be a victim or a victor. The twin flame journey will help you discover that you can fall victim to your circumstances or use those challenges to develop integrity and build character.
The primary purpose of human existence is soul evolution. If you are not learning and growing, there is not much meaning to life. Your soul craves expansion, and it’s through the many challenges that we face in our lives that birth the most transformation.
Meeting your Twin Flame
When you meet your twin flame, you are flooded with so many unfamiliar feelings and emotions that it dominates your very existence. You can’t think of anything else but union with your twin flame.
However, you quickly discover that nothing is easy when it comes to your twin flame connection.
Both twin flames feel the incredible and magnetic pull of unconditional love, yet it feels like something is standing in the way. Heartache, pain, and struggle dominate the connection, leaving you feeling lost and confused.
As you go further along in your journey, you’ll question everything you thought you knew. You’ll begin to challenge your integrity and character and see yourself and the world from a different perspective.
You’ll be left with a simple choice. Either you’ll allow your twin flame connection to tear you down, leaving you feeling lost and hopeless, or you’ll use the pain to rebuild your character and transform it into something new.
A New Perspective
As you start to see life from a higher perspective, your twin flame journey makes sense. No matter how painful it may be, there is a Divine purpose and a reason behind the suffering.
Yes, as a twin flame your number one goal is to reach union, and this is possible. In fact, it is your destiny to be together. But the true purpose of a Twin Flame connection is not union.
The true purpose is the person you become while fulfilling your destiny. Union only becomes possible when you are open to change and allow the lessons from this connection to transform you.
This is when you realize you don’t need the relationship after all and that coming into union is simply icing on the cake.
As a direct result of your twin flame connection, you will develop characteristics that support the Divine Source within you.
These are more than just character traits. They are a way of living and a state of being. They define who you are by uncovering your true nature as a loving, caring eternal being.
These high vibrations characteristics that you will develop upon meeting your twin flame are part of your spiritual awakening process and path to oneness and wholeness.
10 High Vibration Characteristics you develop on your Twin Flame Journey
1. Patience
When you meet your twin flame you are completely unprepared for the level of love and intensity the connection possesses. The passion and desire are so intense that all you can think about is your twin flame.
Unfortunately, the relationship doesn’t usually manifest the way you expect it to. The more you push for a relationship, the more challenging the connection becomes.
Eventually, you realize that you can’t force this connection; instead, it demands that you let go of control, have patience and allow divine timing to take over.
The twin flame connection teaches you how to have patience, center yourself in a calm, peaceful way, and relax and let go.
To have patience is to have unwavering faith and trust in a higher force. It’s allowing the Universe to guide you and the connection where it needs to be.
You learn on this journey that patience is strength and that all good things are worth waiting for. This empowers you to release control and let go of the need to have it now. Instead of forcing the relationship, you allow the connection to unfold naturally.
The ability to have patience is a sign of spiritual maturity. It signifies confidence and shows self-control and discipline. Patience radiates calm, soothing energy that others can feel, especially your twin flame. As you develop further along your twin flame journey, you master the ability to have patience in all situations in your life.
Patience with your twin flame doesn’t mean you’re waiting for them. Instead, you see it as an opportunity to work on yourself by focusing on your personal growth, career, and life purpose.
Showing your twin flame patience is one of the purest forms of love.
2. Surrender
On your twin flame journey, you learn the true power of surrendering and what it means. You realize that to surrender does not mean that you give up on your twin flame. It simply means letting go of control and trusting that the love is divinely guided and protected.
Along your journey, you understand that true surrender means having unwavering faith and believing that you and your twin flame are destined to be together.
You let go of the pain and struggle and release your connection to a higher power. You understand that surrendering is the most critical aspect in obtaining twin flame union.
When you surrender, you move out of the energy of lack which allows you to start attracting what you desire. You learn to let go of any resistance and control and allow things to be.
It becomes second nature once you learn how to surrender your twin flame connection. You no longer hold on too tight in any situation. Instead, you release control to a higher good and allow whatever is meant to be.
You discover your creative power as you learn that surrendering is the key ingredient to manifestation. As you embrace this understanding, you begin to see significant changes in all aspects of your life.
Through your twin flame connection, you learn that your true power is not in control but trusting and allowing the Universe to fulfill your every desire.
3. Self-love
Self-love is the foundation for everything in our lives. One of the most challenging things we face as human beings is learning to love ourselves. It sounds so easy, but it’s proven to be a massive obstacle in human existence.
One of the most critical lessons you learn on your twin flame journey is self-love. Everything starts with self-love. It is what allows you to heal your core wounds.
The dynamics of the connection force you to look inside of yourself and see the beauty within.
Your twin flame is your mirror. You realize that the love you see in them is the same love you possess. It takes your twin flame to reflect that back to you.
You learn to replace your self-judgment with compassion and understanding along your twin flame journey. Enormous change comes once you start eliminating negative self-talk and limiting self-beliefs.
You begin to put your own needs and desires before others and discover that self-love is not vain, but it’s a human requirement and a necessity in life.
Your well-being and happiness are your main priorities. However, you learn that self-love also includes the way you treat other people. Treating people with kindness and respect reflects how much love you have for yourself.
Once you learn to love yourself, you find comfort in being alone. Genuinely you appreciate your own company. This means you don’t require any outside circumstances to make you happy.
You realize that you are enough and take comfort in knowing that the love you seek already lives inside you. You embrace that love, and it becomes your true power as an eternal being.
4. Self-worth
Self-love and self-worth go hand and hand. Without one, you can’t have the other.
To have self-worth means you have high self-esteem and self-respect for yourself and you are confident in your worth and abilities.
Your twin flame will challenge your self-worth in a way that nobody else can. If they are denying the connection or pushing your love away it can cause extreme feelings of rejection and unworthiness.
The very magic of the twin flame connection is that rejection is what forces you to discover your worthiness.
In the beginning, you may try to force the connection in a desperate and needy way. By completely losing your self-respect and disregarding your values and morals.
It’s your twin flame that pushes you to see that you deserve so much more. You will begin to stand up for yourself and your needs.
You stop comparing yourself to others because you understand that nobody compares to you especially in your twin flame’s eyes no matter how it may seem. It’s your high value and worth that often causes your twin flame to become a twin flame runner in the first place.
Through your twin flame’s rejection, you can see how you’ve been rejecting yourself. You learn to respect yourself by setting healthy boundaries with your twin flame and in all areas of your life.
5. Mindfulness
Your twin flame connection forces you to take a deep dive into your soul and there is where you learn that life only exists in the present moment.
Through the pain of your twin flame connection, you learn to release the need to focus on the past and you no longer allow yourself to worry about the future. Instead, you learn to live every moment possible in the now.
You find peace living in the present moment and discover that mindfulness is where you can create.
It’s in the present moment that you feel pure love, gratitude, and abundance. Through mindfulness, you learn to truly love life.
As a twin flame, you will be guided to begin a meditation practice to move into a state of non-resistance. As you begin to take control of your thoughts you never allow a thought to go unnoticed.
You become the observer, pure conscious awareness. This is when you begin to feel oneness and connectedness with all things.
6. Forgiveness
By definition, forgiveness is a conscious and deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment towards another person due to their actions or behaviors.
Your twin flame teaches you the true meaning of forgiveness through rejection and poor behavior.
You learn that forgiving your twin flame is not about condoning their bad behavior. Instead, you discover that forgiveness has less to do with them and more to do with you reclaiming your power.
Resentment carries a very low frequency. When you hold on to negative emotions, it lowers your vibration allowing outside circumstances to control your inner world.
Forgiveness means you go within and acknowledge and address the inner pain the event has caused you, and then you release and let it go.
A big part of forgiveness is forgiving yourself for allowing someone to hurt you. Once you forgive yourself, you stop feeling like a victim, and then you can take back control of your feelings and emotions.
You learn that only once you release these lower energies can you move forward towards your twin flame union and to your divine purpose.
7. Unconditional Love
Twin flame love is unconditional love. It is the bond that holds twin flames together. Unconditional love is love without conditions. It is when you love freely with no expectations of anything in return.
When you meet your twin flame, you will immediately feel unconditional love for them. But it’s through the struggle of your twin flame connection you understand what unconditional love is.
Your twin flame teaches you that unconditional love starts from within. You must first love yourself unconditionally to be able to love another unconditionally.
Unconditional love does not mean that you allow unhealthy behavior. If they are not treating you the way you deserve, you learn to establish healthy boundaries through self-love and self-worth.
This may require that you cut off all communication. You still love your twin flame even when they cannot give you what you deserve, but you respect and honor your own needs first.
You leave space to return only once they have healed their wounds. This doesn’t mean that you are waiting. You are simply allowing them room to grow.
You don’t hold any resentment, but instead, you forgive them with love, compassion, and understanding, and you wish them nothing but the best. Whether you are together or not, the love for them never changes.
8. Intuition
Intuition is your inner knowing of the truth. It’s your intuition that guides you where you need to be. Unfortunately, we are not taught how to listen to our intuition. Instead, we allow our thoughts driven by our ego to control most of our decisions in life.
Intuition is the ability to understand something immediately using instinctive feeling without the need for conscious reasoning.
Your twin flame connection guides you to discover your intuitive strengths and abilities. The connection forces you to go within. Once you go within, you realize that you already have all the answers you are looking for.
After meeting your twin flame, you begin to feel through your heart rather than think with your mind.
Many twin flames, especially divine feminine energy, are guided to Tarot cards because Tarot readers use their intuitive abilities to guide others through the cards.
These gifts are usually discovered and strengthened along the twin flame journey. Often divine feminine (and some divine masculine) twin flames have a mission to guide other twin flames to union using Tarot.
We all have intuition, but as a twin flame, your enhanced ability to recognize your intuition to guide yourself and others is a talent and a gift.
Once you discover this inner knowing, you begin to live your life and make all your decision using your intuition. You let go of the need to rationalize and allow your inner guidance to lead the way.
9. Compassion and Empathy
The moment you connect with your twin flame, you will have overwhelming compassion and empathy towards them.
Compassion is the ability to have sympathy and concern for other people, while empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others.
Because you feel oneness and connectedness with your twin flame, it feels natural to care for them in a compassionate and empathetic way.
As you progress in your twin flame journey, your heart opens up. This allows high vibration energies to flow through you freely. These elevated emotions of unconditional love, compassion, and empathy are mirrors of the Divine.
You feel these elevated emotions not only for your twin flame but for all living things.
By nature, twin flames are empaths. Compassion and empathy are what the world lacks. The love you feel for your twin flame flows out of you for the world as a whole to feel.
As a twin flame, a Lightworker with a special gift, you are here to share your compassion and love to heal the world.
10. Gratitude
Gratitude is the highest vibration next to love. When you express gratitude, you attract all of your desires.
Your twin flame connection teaches you that life is worth being grateful for.
It allows you to look at every situation with an open heart and mind to uncover the hidden lesson.
You learn that it is the perfect time to show appreciation for what you have when things get challenging. In this way, you will never take anything for granted.
You understand that the frequency of gratitude eliminates any feelings of lack or unworthiness. You cannot feel lack when you are grateful.
To manifest your desires, you learn to feel grateful as if your wishes have already been fulfilled. You align with your desires in both your mind and heart and show the Universe that you are open to receiving.
Through your twin flame, you gain this understanding and use gratitude to create the life you want to live.
Transformation
Twin flame love is magical as it transforms you in a way that nothing else can. What you learn from this love is something that can never be taken away from you. The growth and transformation that you will experience from your twin flame connection will change your life forever.
With or without your twin flame, you become your true authentic self, which is the purpose of twin flame love.
Through this connection, your character will be defined, aligning with the Divine Source of creation. Separation is an illusion. You will feel oneness and connectedness with Source and all of life. It is through this powerful energy of love that anything is possible.
You will feel the Divine Source within you and realize that you are simply an expression of Source manifested in this physical reality. You will feel whole and complete, and you will no longer look for happiness outside of you. But instead, feel peace and joy every day of your life.
Your twin flame hands you the gift of wholeness. You will feel so whole thanks to this divine love that you will no longer want anything. You will begin to create your life through a state of wholeness instead of from a feeling of lack and separation.
As a twin flame, you become a conscious creator with the ability to operate only through the eyes of love.